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Post by Dane's_Mods_Sux on Jun 18, 2004 15:18:32 GMT -5
I am currently at work. I had a long-standing "friends w/ benefits" relationship with a guy I work with (mistake #1) for about 3 years. In everyone's mind (except him) we were dating. Spent every weekend with him, helped him shop for a house and furniture and clean the place up nice. Things went sour cause I wanted acknowledgment of the relationship and wanted more out of it. He didn't. We both came out of bad relationships and needed each other for strength and comfort. Understood. And I KNOW I am stupid for letting it go on for so long - but how do you give so much to someone you have no intentions of considering a girlfriend. He is now strong enough to HAVE a relationship and it ain't with me. Blah. Blah. Blah. I mean, what the F? And how do you now WORK with someone who you used to sleep with AND the friendship is over cause I can't deal with the fact that he is with someone else and giving her all the things I should have received. Jealousy is rearing its ugly head!! I keep hearing his sucky voice in the hallway or on the phone and I want to run up and smack him 'till he bleeds! What is it with men and the fact they can have sex with NO feelings involved?? I am in such a foul mood.  |
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Post by ILaughAtSex on Jun 18, 2004 18:07:02 GMT -5
I'm not going to defend men. I think for the most part, men suck. I also think, for the most part, women suck too. I don't like people evry much, as they don't deserve it. However I do feel inclined to say that not all men are like that. You just need to find somebody who actually cares.
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Post by Stinkfist on Jun 18, 2004 19:58:06 GMT -5
I am currently at work. I had a long-standing "friends w/ benefits" relationship with a guy I work with (mistake #1) for about 3 years. In everyone's mind (except him) we were dating. Spent every weekend with him, helped him shop for a house and furniture and clean the place up nice. Things went sour cause I wanted acknowledgment of the relationship and wanted more out of it. He didn't. We both came out of bad relationships and needed each other for strength and comfort. Understood. And I KNOW I am stupid for letting it go on for so long - but how do you give so much to someone you have no intentions of considering a girlfriend. He is now strong enough to HAVE a relationship and it ain't with me. Blah. Blah. Blah. I mean, what the F? And how do you now WORK with someone who you used to sleep with AND the friendship is over cause I can't deal with the fact that he is with someone else and giving her all the things I should have received. Jealousy is rearing its ugly head!! I keep hearing his sucky voice in the hallway or on the phone and I want to run up and smack him 'till he bleeds! What is it with men and the fact they can have sex with NO feelings involved?? I am in such a foul mood. wow, you sound like the girl my friend slept around with multiple times (friends with benefits gimmick) now he ignores her calls and avoids seeing her in person at her work. sucks :{ -stink |
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Post by 2Short on Jun 18, 2004 22:43:09 GMT -5
You find a girl in your office to have sex with and make him jealous.
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Post by LTrain06 on Jun 18, 2004 23:50:56 GMT -5
good plan! tell the guy you're with a girl, cuz then not only is he jealous that he can't join in now, he also feels inadequate for driving you to lesbianism.
but come on, man....3 years? I'd wait maybe a month and be outta there. why did you wait for acknowledgement for 3 years? sorry, I'm gonna be honest here and judge you and say that that is kind of sad.
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Post by Dane's_Mods_Sux on Jun 18, 2004 23:55:13 GMT -5
but come on, man....3 years? I'd wait maybe a month and be outta there. why did you wait for acknowledgement for 3 years? sorry, I'm gonna be honest here and judge you and say that that is kind of sad. First off, there are no hot girls in my office to have a thing with - he wouldn't give a crap anyway. I agree I was an ass for 3 years and yes, it is incredibly sad...but he was my best friend and I overlooked alot of stuff because of that...but yes, I am a huge ass. The first 2 years or so I wasn't ready for a serious relationship so the benefits thing worked out fine. |
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Post by Macha on Jun 19, 2004 12:02:46 GMT -5
This 'friends with benefits' shit never works out. If you are having sex with someone for a long period of time, someone is bound to start developing feelings. Then one person starts using the other...yadda yadda yadda.
Fuck that. I'd rather be alone then have meaningless sex over and over and over again.
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Post by 2Short on Jun 19, 2004 13:05:53 GMT -5
I'd rather be alone then have meaningless sex over and over and over again. That's my philosophy. I just want to fuck everybody lots of times. Everybody. |
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Post by ILaughAtSex on Jun 20, 2004 0:56:42 GMT -5
This 'friends with benefits' shit never works out. If you are having sex with someone for a long period of time, someone is bound to start developing feelings. Then one person starts using the other...yadda yadda yadda. Fuck that. I'd rather be alone then have meaningless sex over and over and over again. So let me get this straight... after you are alone, you will have meaningless sex over and over again? With who exactly... you are of course alone. |
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Post by noshit on Jun 20, 2004 1:07:49 GMT -5
FUCK GUYS! fuck guys who fuck girls with no feelings! fuck ANYONE who has SEX with no feelings! fucking fuck yourself! i hate people right now.
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Post by hiseyetwirls on Jun 20, 2004 12:44:09 GMT -5
Fuck you
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Post by censored on Jun 20, 2004 19:13:54 GMT -5
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Post by Macha on Jun 20, 2004 19:58:01 GMT -5
Fuck yo momma.
Fuck yo sista.
Fuck yo grandmama.
And most of all...FUCK YOU!
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Post by LTrain06 on Jun 20, 2004 20:54:55 GMT -5
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Post by NonDylan on Jun 20, 2004 21:43:17 GMT -5
Fuck this.
(remote control)
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